It's awfully tempting to think poorly of our fellow citizens, particularly if one were to judge them by the newspapers, on-line reporting, and TV/cable news. So much negative news, stories about crime, and the like. And don't get me started about the political campaigns!
But, really, most people I encounter are truly nice. They enjoy smiling and laughing. Even though we all have troubles, large and small, with which to contend, I think it is human nature to smile and laugh.
Whether it is someone encountered while walking along the street in a very nice neighborhood, the server at the local coffee shop, the person next to you at the ball game, or those driving along the freeway along side of you, if you look for it, you'll see the smiles and humor.
I'm certainly not discounting the immense troubles that fulfill our lives and that of those around us. I recently wrote about the death of the young female Marine who leaves behind four small children. Smiles are likely in short supply in that home. Additionally, a former colleague was bludgeoned to death last month, a terrible fate for a very nice lady. No smiles for her friends and family either. But this will not be a permanent situation. Eventually the pain will recede, allowing the more positive and uplifting thoughts and activities to renew.
I remain convinced of the basics of our fellow citizens, including smiling and laughing. Even in the face of the tragedies our families and friends contend with in the course of life.
So as I travel through our great nation, I'm taking notice of the smiles and laughter. Makes it a far more positive trip!
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